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Monday, February 11, 2013

Over the coming months I will be publishing stories written by E.A.T! clients who are courageous enough to share their journey and how it changed their lives.  

This is Lorelei and this is her story.

Lorelei suffers from Colitis which was diagnosed around age 35 and was brought on by stress and an unhealthy diet.  When she suffered an attack it would last anywhere from 6 to 8 weeks and her weight would drop because of her bodies inability to absorb the nutrients in her food.  She was dancing through life dealing with 2 to 3 attacks per year that led to additional health problems including polyps in her colon.  With every attack the polyps would increase and so did her chances of getting colon cancer.  Statistically she was looking at 20 to 30% higher risk of cancer WITH EVERY ATTACK.  This is real life scary stuff!  I am happy to report that since Lorelei joined the E.A.T! program and made a serious commitment to her health, regular exercise and life style choices to reduce stress she has now been attack free for 15 months... and counting.

My name is Lorelei and I wanted to share my story and my journey. I know we all want health, happiness and all the things we associate with a good life. I finally decided I was tired of wanting and dreaming...I was actually going to really do this. Stop wishing I was someone else. I wanted to look at myself and like what I saw.


I have spent my life choosing to hide in the shadows. Growing up I wasn't fat nor was I thin. I did live with a fat kid image though. My younger sister and I went to what we refereed to "fat classes". Not feeling secure, feeling fat and at times like the ugly duckling. I was every one's friend and I so wanted not to be that girl. I wanted to have even one person say, wow you look great or you're hot.  I wanted to be able to stand out and be the pretty one but I just couldn't.


I could rationalize what I ate, when I ate it and how much. I was rather proud of the volume of food I could eat. Looking back I wore this ability like some type of  badge.

I wasn't the hot skinny chick, so I was going to be the fun, fat, less than average looking,  ass kicking kinda gal...one of the boys. It was so easy to exist and exist and get by is what I did.
My self image was again being squashed.

Over the years I had tried doing weight watchers, going to the gym and creating some balance in my life but I believed I would never accomplish anything and gave up.  It was only a matter of time before I would feel an overwhelming sensation to get back on the horse and try again.  I would eat better and attend fitness classes but once again that damn horse kicked me off. When I really dig deep within I know there was no horse and the only person I was angry at was me.

I had created a horrible self image and didn't believe I could be anything other than this image . I only had myself to blame.  I had believed in my "story" as it had been internally written by me and my perception of what other people thought and I wasn't prepared to re-write it. Quite a cumbersome book I carried for some 30 odd years. Thank god it isn't published.


My incentive or rather goal to really start changing and get back on the horse was my high school reunion in 2012. I wanted to look good. I started working out with Maki Fit in November of 2011 and I wanted to know more about what I could do to increase the weight loss. Believe me, if there were a pill to fast track it I would have bought it.

Of course all accomplishments come with a price - patience, perseverance and dedication. Three things I didn't believe I had or was capable of.

I ran into a friend who mentioned Lisa & BUC Fitness....the seed was planted. 
I would go to the gym and the E.A.T! program brochure would be there but I  had never paid attention to it in the past, then one day at physio, there it was again, that Lisa lady and EAT!.  I felt like I was being subconsciously stalked by her. This time I decided to pick up the information, read it and re-read it.
Dammit.  In that moment I decided I was not going to continue to live my life in fear and the "what if" but thought about "why not" and "what have you got to loose"?

I called and registered and my journey down the garden path took a HUGE left turn.

As I actually got to know this gal, talked to her and saw her accomplishments I was sold on her E.A.T! program. There are so many ads out there saying "get fit", "loose 20 in 20" and every other unimaginable tactic to "buy" into their programs, but I had the real deal talking to me about her story and the benefits of how she felt and the difference the program had made in the lives of previous E.A.T! alumni.



I started my E.A.T! program in Feb 2012 and it was no walk in the park. I was learning to be accountable to myself. This in itself took courage and strength as I had always been good at just sailing along but I couldn't let it happen this time. Each week I learned something new about food, it's relationship with me and other foods. I had to learn how to eat and when to eat. Yes, a strange concept and I struggled with it.  I still wanted cookies and chips or cheese....(oh dear friend i miss you) but those were foods which kept me stuck and in a place that made me unhappy. Those were my trigger foods! Each week there were accomplishments, some larger than others but I always felt like I was progressing. One thing I learned were that the number on the scale were not always what I wanted to see but the physical measurements spoke volumes.

I began to look differently and feel differently. I had more energy.

When the 10 sessions were over I knew I needed more. I did not have the power to do this alone and waned some extra accountability. I felt great about this decision. For so long I made excuses, blamed others, hid and did not look at the underlying issues that had created my love affair and dysfunction with food.  Food was the drug I used to hide and keep me stuck in old beliefs and untruths about myself.  I fed my gremlins and had been for years. Trust me when I tell you that there were times I wanted to give up. I thought who the hell is she to call me out, and who the hell am I? Eating healthy and to lose weight is simple but it isn't easy. I was motivated by a strong need to feel better and look better. There were many days of frustration, sadness and stress but I had support. Support from Lisa and my E.A.T! alumni members. They do get it.


Every day and every week got easier. I asked lots of questions, asked how to modify recipes and kept in touch and connected with Lisa. My dedication rewarded me with lost inches and pounds. I was a BELIEVER...and part of my believing was being given the opportunity to assist Lisa in her next group E.A.T! session. I learned so much more being a part of this new class, and realized I had missed parts before as I was overwhelmed. I started to journey inside myself and look at the other pieces of me that were tied to my food choices.  Never judge by a book by it's cover. The story within can take your breath away. I am down twenty pounds.


I am still in a state of learning and I do fall off the wagon from time to time but I don't see it as failing anymore and just part of life.  I am smarter now and I am armed with tools to make better choices. Now when I look in the mirror I see a brighter version of myself and the shine comes from the inside out.

This is an admission to how I felt, how I  feel now and a look forward at what I still want to achieve. It feels good to be heard and tell my story and I hope it sparks a change and possibility in the "what if" for someone else.


Lorelei trains with Maki Fit and won their client of the year in 2012 for her amazing transformation and accomplishments with her fitness training.  Maki offers one on one fitness coaching and group classes.  (and you may even break a sweat next to me as I am frequently visiting to work on my own fitness goals!)


The next E.A.T! class starts April 8, 2013.
  Register now to look and feel your best by summer and for LIFE! 
Get from where you are to where you want to be and re-define your relationship with food and yourself.
Please note ALL class dates (this is a 10 session series)


April 8, 15, 22 & 29


May 6, 13 & 27 (No class May 20)


June 3, 10 & 17


Maybe the next story will be yours....

-L





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Sunday, February 3, 2013

The one bite myth.

Seriously, its time to put this thinking to bed.  I am so tired of trying to work strategies that just don't work because they require that I am not honest with myself.  I am never going to just be able to have one bite of something that I love and walk away feeling satisfied.  Its time for all of us to be honest about our triggers and just accept that you either decide to go all in or walk away.  There is a saying "one is too many and 10 is never enough".  Is anyone else picking up what I am putting down?? 


Who keeps leaving these for me????

I have already proclaimed that this is the year of "coaching" for me and it is also the year that I continue to get down, dirty and honest with myself about what does and doesn't work for me.  Enough stories, enough game play.  I am a busy mom and coach and I juggle more schedules and balls than I care to admit.  This is real life people.  Time is short, rest and eating well is the foundation of my self care and I am still struggling to make the time for myself. 

So here I am again faced with the standard answer to this problem (and yes I can even say I have used this strategy with my clients in the past) which is schedule some time in your day and treat yourself as your most important client.  Ok, so here is where the breakdown happens for me.  This is actually a true statement, I DO need to book myself as a client and make myself a priority BUT I am not disciplined enough to follow through on my own.  Yes, there you have it... my dirty little secret.  I can't seem to stay accountable to myself when it comes to making and keeping fitness appointments on my own schedule. 

Why??  Because just like many of my clients, the list of things that seem to come up on a day to day basis (including taking care of the needs of my clients) seems to trump the priority I make myself.  Does this sound familiar to any of you?? How many times have you scheduled something for yourself (and hell it could be anything) only to find out that your kid has a sporting event, your husband has a work function or a friend needs a compassionate ear?? 

So obviously left to my own devices I am failing miserably. Everyone knows my love of fitness AND my dedication to practising what I preach and being a genuine role model.  So what's the solution?? 

HIRE A COACH.  Yep, for right now this makes sense to me. Now I have appointments booked on someone elses schedule and guess what?  I ALWAYS SHOW UP.  Hey, saying this out loud in the past would have made me feel shameful that I couldn't do this for myself, be accountable to myself or just take care of my own needs.  This isn't about shame though.  This is about finding a solution that is going to work for me and making sure at the end of the week my needs have been met, my goals have been accomplished and I have carved out that time for myself AND I haven't compromised on it.  Oh, and have I mentioned I LOVE working with Maki and being a client instead of a coach?  It is inspiring to work with a colleague and a friend in a different environment and be focused on MY goals.

Sit down and take an honest inventory of what is and isn't working with your own health and fitness needs.  If you aren't getting workouts in and making yourself a priority isn't working, then become accountable to someone else.  Find a partner, hire a coach, join a class.  JUST DO SOMETHING so that a year from now you will be looking back celebrating what you have accomplished and not stewing about lost time with little or nothing done.

Looking for the right fit and live in the lower mainland?  Here are some of my fav's... including yours truly ;)

www.bucfitness.com/eat  Working out alone isn't enough.  Some dedication in the kitchen is needed.  I am just the coach for that!

http://www.makiperformance.com/ known for his killer boot camps and dedication to his profession and clients.  I am proud to work with him as my off site coach and the perspective he brings to my own goals and pursuit of excellence.  I dance in and out of his boot camps so maybe you will find yourself breaking a sweat next to me!

www.nlpt.ca  Tia Clearihue amazing wingman to BUC and conditioning coach specializing in kids in sports.  She also runs our popular TRX and teachers conditioning classes.

http://www.balancemotion.com/ Andrea Lawson and her team are dedicated to movement perfection.  If you have been injured in the past or are currently working on rehab this is the team that can take you from correction to quality lifts.

http://212humanperformance.com/  Brad Khan is out of the Olympic Oval and has all the toys to help endurance athletes take their event to the next level (watch for my lactic threshold testing blog post).  Train smarter and race faster.

http://primefitness.ca/ Marina Watson was one of my first partners and connections in the fitness industry.  She knows her stuff and also works with athletes and weekend warriors.
http://www.innerfitstudios.com/  New to fitness??  Rachel specializes in fitness newbies looking for a safe supportive environment to find their groove.
http://graceandjoyyoga.blogspot.ca/    Small classes with one on one attention to detail.  Newbies will feel at home and welcome and seasoned yogi's will enjoy the peace and tranquility of small classes.  Shelley Jaffe is an amazing spirit and you can find the studio's schedule here.

So find your right fit, book an appointment and get serious about making YOU a priority.

~ Lisa




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